"Control" In Moderation
"Being in control", "being out of control" and "being controlling". The difference between these three is that being in control is a good thing, while you wouldn't want to be out of control or be controlling. "Control " is not a bad thing, except if you overdo it. Keep that word in moderation.
Freud's classic model of the mind is that of the id- ego- superego. Our psychological task, according to him, is to take control of our impulses which are out of control. It's like taming a horse to ride it. The id is like a stallion, the out of control part of our personality- our wild impulses that run in every